椒盐豆豉

Misgender

July 15, 2024
不行就分
rant | LGBTQ | random

作为一个顺女就仅仅因为职业/爱好/性取向/输出内容更像传统意义上的男的而成天到晚被默认 misgender 就很烦是我显然是 trans ally 的原因之一了🤷(说是“仅仅”是因 ...


The most unprofessional recruiter I’ve ever seen

June 9, 2021
English | 重启电脑
career | rant | software engineer

Throughout my career in tech industry, all of the recruiters I’ve worked with are decent, or at least professional enough to coordinate me and the recruiting teams in their company without issue. Sometimes they’re slow in response or sounded less passionate about the job, which I totally get, everyone gets burnt out sometime. The worst case, they ghost people after interviews, ...


Social decency

November 11, 2020
不行就分
rant

就还挺搞笑的,因为被互联网拉近了距离和模糊了圈子的界限,能接触到许多似乎非常不把自己说出去的话和别人的回应当回事的人,毕竟没有互联网的话现实 ...


我的 mother issue

June 27, 2020
不行就分
LGBTQ | rant | 家庭 | 情感

感觉美国人流行 father issue,我跟我爸非常相安无事,出柜之后他几年没跟我说话我俩井水不犯河水。我比较大的问题是我妈,“我妈担心我过得不好”成为 ...


Mildly Annoying Driver

May 1, 2019
不行就分
car | rant

Mildly annoying 的程度,大概介于右边没车的情况下走限速的 left lane blocker,和螃蟹王附体从最左线平移去出口之间。前者属于完全合法可以轻轻绕开,后者刚达到 ...