既然我已经活蹦乱跳地开始出去玩了，感觉应该把这个之前立下 flag 要写的手术体验短期 review 一鼓作气写了。关于我为什么选择了切子宫（Hysterectomy）的原委请看本系列第一篇：割以永治 part 1：我跟月经战斗的二十年。其实我术后短期也有一直在长毛象直播，有长毛象账号的感兴趣的朋友可以去 follow 一下这个 thread。
我手术是 2022 年 12 月 20 日做的，所以现在已经过去了二十多天，觉得可以比较全面地写短期体验了。大家一年之后还记得话可以来鸡我写个长期测评。
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这是我拖延了老久的去年 12 月 patreon 博客命题，本来这个命题和 desk setup 平票然后超级金主双倍投票权使得 desk setup 胜出，但是被我拖到 2023 年了哈哈哈哈哈
主要外观跟去年变化不大，当然搬完家一年多了已经乱了很多。本来我觉得设备也没换多少有点不想写这篇，仔细一想虽然框架差不多但是其实换过一轮了。上一轮的 setup 请看 2021 desk setup.
2023 年 1 月的 patreon 命题已经发布，欢迎金主们前去投票决定：
因为前阵子情绪有点崩所以不想像之前那样长篇大论了，这应该是本话痨写过最短的年终总结（跟很多朋友比还是很长，短死的话痨比马大）。
Exceeds 的：
Meet 的：
Needs Improvement 的：
前两天 down 的时候觉得今年一事无成，现在冷静下来觉得多是 recency bias 自己不能拿 best year 去年来 calibrate。其实已经过得很好了，遇事 Taylor Tomlinson: You can’t have it all. 朋友说的异曲同工：你不能 expect 自己所有时候都很 productive。
总之六周的病假来的恰到好处，花了几天时间 reflect 和 re-piroitize, let’s just see where will 2023 bring me to.
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提笔的时候没有意识到，今天竟然刚好是我从加州搬走的一周年。2021 年的 11 月 25 日，我从住了 7 年的，我第一个自己选的可以称之为家的地方，开着我的小车车带着不多的家当离开了。大概是对家的不舍导致已经上了 880 才意识到还有东西忘了拿，还回去拿了一趟，真正上路已经是中午了。
也大概是两年前，我在 Lake Tahoe 湖边一个 Airbnb 写下这篇 California Dream（省略五千字抒情大作文）。那个时候大概是一瞬间第一次认真考虑了搬家，也很有幸一年之后生活大变样就实施了。虽然跟我设想的改变不大一样：工作时辞了但四海为家 working holiday 没成，做了一个月项目就累了在家躺平了半年，认识了天南海北一堆新朋友，找了新工作，毫无创意地从湾区搬到了西雅图。
转眼间搬来西雅图也一年了，没想到市场变化所以并没有在今年底买房，但是换了驾照和注册了投票，有了本地的圈子，也算是一个正正经经的西雅图人了。抒情的东西我那篇 California Dream 都写过了，西雅图矫情小作文大概可以等离开的时候在写，今天来正正经经对比一下网上已经被说过无数遍的湾区 vs 西雅图对比。Hot take，我还是蛮喜欢湾区的，离开也只是想尝试一下新地方而已。西雅图来了一整年四季也都经历过，蜜月期也刚被入冬 depressing 的天气浇熄，两边的滤镜应该都不 太重，是个写这种对比参考文的好时机。
本文是 11 月 patreon 金主们票选出来的内容（其实感觉不投这篇我也会写的哈哈哈哈）12 月 patreon 选题投票现已开始，欢迎大家投票决定：
I’m going on a trip tomorrow and not gonna bring my computer, so I decided to take one last check at my WordPress site making sure everything is doing fine. Then I saw recently all the bot like high count visitors are from a narrow range of IP from Singapore. I thought it’s just some good old crawler draining up my server, so I casually added the range to All In One Wp Security (AIOS)’s blacklist manager.
Then, without refreshing, I realized I recently setup cloudflare for all my site cuz my other site was DDoS’ed the other day. Couldn’t this happen to be cloudflare’s proxy server right? So I hit refresh. 403. At the same time, my Better Uptime incident alert came.
Bummed by my own stupidity, I think I should just be able to ssh into the server, disable all the plugins as usual, and back to the game. Well, after renaming both all-in-one-wp-security-and-firewall and all plugins at /var/www/html/wp-content/plugins/, I’m still getting 403. Usually all the plugin related issue got solved at this step without needing to restart service, I’m not sure why this time it didn’t work.
So I start to Google something like AIOS self lockout, trying to find where does it store the blacklist that I can quickly manually edit by command line. No luck.
I tried to disable cloudflare proxy at cloudflare dashboard, no luck. And I’m too lazy to switch DNS provider back to where I was using before.
I started to poke around more in the plugin’s folder, and eventually found the file that did the trick: /var/www/html/wp-content/plugins/all-in-one-wp-security-and-firewall/admin/wp-security-list-locked-ip.php.Seems like the IPs are stored at a table called AIOWPSEC_TBL_PERM_BLOCK. I just commented out the entire line here in the prepare_items() function. Refresh, back online, removed the IP range from blacklist, uncomment the line.
So, that was just a small stupid incident on a random Thursday night 9pm before a trip. 乁། * ❛ ͟ʖ ❛ * །ㄏ
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